So would you consider a cop or firefighter to be part of the qualification to be a perfect man? Not according to a recent survey, at least. The new poll finds the perfect man to be a successful 40 year old who is a moderate drinker, a doctor, and of course, looks like Patrick Dempsey. Of the 1,100 adults who participated, 35% rank education as the most important priority as a man matures followed by being a hard worker and a gentleman. Having a bad temper was the number one thing they chose to change. The survey was conducted by 60 Minutes and Vanity Fair.